How to Help Your Wife with Postpartum Depression

You're baby has arrived. You're a new dad and you couldn't be happier. But your wife seems to be emotionally floundering. Something just isn't right with her. The baby blues are a perfectly normal aspect of having a child. A woman goes through extreme changes hormonally, physically and mentally. If it persists more than a couple weeks though, it could be a bigger problem than just the baby blues. She could be suffering from postpartum depression, or PPD. How can you help her?

Understand Postpartum Depression
Know the signs to watch for. PPD can arise any time in the first year after giving birth. Many women experience the baby blues in the weeks after giving birth, but if these symptoms occur past two weeks then it might be time to seek professional help. Watch for symptoms such as: fatigue, feelings of guilt, hopelessness or being overwhelmed, irritability, anger, frequent crying, sadness, changes in diet or sleep.

Be There for Her
Be her shoulder to cry on, her comforting arms, her listening ear and her support. Be patient, kind and loving always, even if you don't understand her emotions or response. Listen to her without judgement or offering solutions. Be gentle with her in her emotional state.  Try not to criticize her or pressure her into things she is not yet ready for.

Give Her a Break
In the weeks after having a baby, the mother's time is consumed with feeding, changing and caring for the new little one. It can be hard for her to find the time to take care of herself, but it's vitally important for her sanity. Offer to give her a break. Take the baby off her hands and let her bathe, eat a warm meal, take a nap or go for a walk. It will go a long ways towards making her feel human and whole again.

Help Her Get Professional Help
Professional help could be talking to a therapist or getting medication. The sooner professional help is received, the less negative impact the condition has on the family. Women experiencing PPD often are too depressed or ashamed to reach out for help, so it is extremely helpful for you to find resources that can assist her with her depression.

Go for a Walk with Her
Exercise is known to help with the symptoms of depression.  It can be hard for a depressed person to get motivated to get out of the house, but try offering to take a walk together.  Baby is sure to love some fresh air as well!

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Maddi Casey is a muscle car driving, hard working mama who is obsessed with football and good beer. She has two beautiful baby girls and loving husband. Writing is a passion, hobby and sometimes career of hers at She is also passionate about animals, nature and entrepreneurship.
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